Sharing thoughts.

It is a good fortune to have someone as a friend with whom you can share your secrets, private joys and intimate worries. Human heart is not capable of withstanding much happiness and deep sorrows. so it is better to lessen its burden by sharing it. This should be done with utmost care. The person we select must be trustworthy and generous to offer his time.He/she need not be a great intellectual or a scholar capable of giving valuable tips.Mere patient hearing itself will do a lot. Our life span is too short. We are heavily conditioned by the society .Individuals have only limited freedom to be themselves. This is creating a lot of tension. We may not get exact partners either in private or public life. Naturally, if somebody walks into our life with a bit of consolation we tend to tilt our love or loyalty towards that individual. In due course this itself may become another burden.Then we will be in a predicament as to how to release ourself from this relationship. In such situations often we panic and come to wrong conclusions or take a generalised view that nobody is trustworthy. This leads to isolation which in due course will result in depression. So the better option is try to indentify or trust at least one individual with whom you can share your joys and sorrows. This need a little courage to take risk. Remember the other also may need you.Once this experiment clicked you will have a lifelong friend.